Happiness & Job quality

For the last few days i have been going through a cold war with my hubby. The result is very bad. All day i can't concentrate in any work at my office. Just trying to make each task done. But in the end, i know these are not being quality task.

Being a quality assurance engineer, i can feel i am not delivering quality job.

And i guess we all know how important it is to be happy in your personal life, otherwise it has bad affects in all parts of your life and day.

I cannot enjoy any work now.What to do? Feeling very bad now.

I know at last i have to surrender in this war, and let them win.

I am going through a strike these days inside my family, against my father in law & mother in law.

Now i can understand why Europeans can deliver quality service and how they can maintain the professionalism in their working place.
They are independent, they can spend their time as needed and as they wish.And they need not to live with their father in law and mother in law.

Being a girl and being raised in a family, where i was so much independent............but after being married, i am here with responsibilities and to do's that i do not enjoy, it is becoming difficult.

I do not know how to end this war, but i will try my best to win this time.I am not going into the details about why i am angry with them..........but the thing is i want my independence to spend my time as i wish, BACK.

Girls in Bangladesh will move one step further, from the day they need not to stay in a joint family.
God!!! I just Google with the keyword Joint Family, lots of reading material........
You can go through if you have time.

Sad Wednesday for me, next two days i need to give two presentation and i am not happy..................
May allah save me.